Since
September of last year, I have been trying to find the words to say goodbye.
These things take a while sometimes. I was thinking I needed to
end with a bang. Three wonderful life altering entries into my blog that
would astound and amaze. Writing that where so good that life would
change on the turn of a dime. Life doesn't work that way, there is no
silver bullet that will fix all.
The truth
is I stopped The Buddy System a long time ago. When I realized life was
about making me happy, not others. That my goals needed to match my
dreams not others. People’s opinions,
views, and judgements of you don’t matter, what makes you happy does. What matters, what truly matters, is when you
are standing at the base of your Dark Tower you can look at it, and you can say
I did it my way, I did it the best I could, and I am satisfied with my how my
life turned out. That you have told
people to keep their mouths shut and keep their fucking opinions to
themselves.
I didn’t
know how much I had grown. I didn’t let
myself see it. I was to focused on
thinking I was a number on the scale, and not a person. When I started this, I really thought my
weight defined me. My weight doesn’t
mean shit. It is a number. I am more than a weight problem; I am a
person. I am Billy fucking b and I am
awesome.
So, I am
going. This is it, this is the end to
the buddy system, the girl I used know and loved is gone and the need to please
others is as well. So, now it is time to
focus, really focus on getting healthy and letting go of everything and facing life,
my fear, and everything else that I have stayed away from. This is the last good-bye I swear. The reasons I started this are gone, so the
updates trying to make myself feel better about it are going too.
I am not
done writing. There will be other
blogs. There will be other things coming
from my fingertips but you dear reader that is for you to fine. There are hints if you want to read Billy b,
you can find him.